四爷:

　　人生一梦，白云苍狗。错错对对，恩恩怨怨，终不过日月无声、水过无痕。所难弃者，一点痴念而已！当一人轻描淡写地说出"想要"二字时，他已握住了开我心门的钥匙；当他扔掉伞陪我在雨中挨着、受着、痛着时，我已彻底向他打开了门；当他护住我，用自己的背朝向箭时，我已此生不可能再忘。之后是是非非，不过是越陷越深而已。 　　话至此处，你还要问起八爷吗？ 　　由爱生嗔，由爱生恨，由爱生痴，由爱生念。从别后，嗔恨痴念，皆化为寸寸相思。不知你此时，可 还怨我、恨我、恼我、怒我？紫藤架下，月冷风清处，笔墨纸砚间，若曦心中没有皇帝，只有拿去我魂魄的四爷一人！相思相望不相亲，薄情转是多情累，曲曲柔肠 碎。红笺向壁字模糊，曲阑深处重相见，日日盼君至。 　　

若曦

Thank You My dear Colleagues

Dear Elicia Ooi, Jane Liew, Chris Tan, Nicole Tan, Tracy Lee, Ampon & Lai, Renies Lim, Yong Yong, Yati, Kelly Ong and Soo Mei:

Thank you for your warmest wishes... I'm very touched.. : )

Happy Birthday Dickson

Today is Dickson's birthday...

Wish my dear a very very happy birthday...

Wish him stay healthy and happiness forever and all his dreams come true... ^_^

Thanks my bro Ken for everything : )

Also my bro Boon Khong, hope he recover soon : )

Thanks Soo Mei too : )

Cute and Sweet

 Last Christmas, my bro bought me this..

Cute like my bro...
Sweet like his sincere heart...

Neuhaus Chocotale from Cheong Hooi

This is the chocolate bought from a friend, he is my chocolate kaki...

This box of Neuhaus chocolate from Belgium cost about RM238.90 for not more than 35 pieces inside.


Thanks Cheong Hooi ^_^

Cutie Neighbour

They are really good neighbour...

We are so grateful to have them ^_^
 

Our cutie neighbour:  Aunty Ah Zhan















Ah Lim, Aunty Ah Zhan, Dickson

思想轉換 - 心態的力量 The strength of mindset

A good share from friend's forward email:

思想轉換 - 心態的力量
The strength of mindset女兒向父親抱怨，事事都很艱難。
A daughter complains toward the father, everything is difficult.
她不知如何應付生活，好像一個問題剛剛解決，新的問題又會出現，她有些厭倦。
She finds it hard to cope with life, seem a problem just resolve, the new
problem appeared again, she was tired.
父親是一位廚師，把她帶進廚房。
Her father is a cook, bring her into the kitchen.
他先往三口鍋裡倒入一些水，然後放在旺火上。
He goes toward first to pour into some waters in 3 pots, then puts on the fire.
不久，水開了。
Soon, water boiling.
他往第一口鍋裡放一些胡蘿蔔，第二口鍋裡放入雞蛋，第三口鍋裡放入碾成粉末的
咖啡豆。
He put some carrots in the first pot, put an egg into the second pot, put some
coffee powder into the third pot.


20分鐘後，父親把火關了，把胡蘿蔔撈出來，放入一個碗內，把雞蛋撈出來，放入
一個鍋內，然後把咖啡舀到一個杯子裡。
20 minutes later, father off the fire, take out the carrot. Go to the scond pot
take out the egg, and then ladling up the coffee to a cup.
父親轉身問女兒：
The father turned to ask his daughter:
「孩子，你看到了什麼？」
'Kid, what do you come in sight of?'
「胡蘿蔔，雞蛋，咖啡。」她說。
「Carrot, egg, coffee」She says.
他讓她靠近一些，摸摸胡蘿蔔。
He lets her come closer to touch the carrot.
她注意到他它們變軟了。
She noticed the carot become soft.
父親又讓女兒拿一個雞蛋，打破它，剝掉殼，這是一個煮熟的雞蛋。
The father lets the daughter take the egg, breaking it, peel the egg shell,
this is a cooked egg.
 最後，父親讓她喝了一口咖啡。
Last, the father lets her drink a mouthful of coffee.
濃濃的咖啡，女兒笑了，怯聲問道：
Taste to the very thick coffee, the daughter smile, she asked:

「父親，這意味著什麼？」
'Father, what does this mean?'
父親說，三樣東西面臨同樣的逆境——煮沸的開水。
The father says three things face same adverse circumstances-boiling water.
但其反映各不相同。
But its reflection is not same.

胡蘿蔔入鍋前是強壯的、結實的，放進開水，它變軟了、變弱了。
The carrot, before put in to the pot, it is strong and hard, after putting into
the boiled water, it become soft,become weak.
雞蛋原來是易碎的，薄薄的外殼保護著液態的內臟，開水一煮，內臟變硬。
The egg is originally crumbly, the very thin outer shell protects the
internal organs of the liquid, once the boiled water cook, the internal organs
become hard.
粉狀咖啡豆則很獨特，進入沸水，它們便改變了水。
The coffee bean powder then is very special, entering boiling water,
they changed the water then.

在艱難和逆境前，可以學胡蘿蔔、雞蛋和咖啡豆，可以屈服，
也可以變得更堅強——甚至，可以改變環境。
We can learn how carrot, egg and coffee bean react in the difficulties
and adverse circumstances. They can accept defeat, can become
stronger, and even can change environment/surrounding.

父親說：
The father says:
你改變不了環境，但可以改變自己；
You cannot change the environment, but can change yourself;
你改變不了事實，但可以改變態度；
You cannot change the fact, but can change an attitude;
你改變不了過去，但可以改變現在；
You cannot change the past, but can change the present;
你不能控制他人，但可以掌握自己；
You have no command over others, but can control yourself;
你不能預知明天，但可以把握今天；
You can't predict tomorrow, but can hold on today;
你不能樣樣順利，但可以事事盡心；
You can't be doing smooth and well in everything,
but can devote your best effort;
你不能左右天氣，但可以改變心情；
You can't change weather, but can change a mood;
你不能改變容貌，但可以展現笑容；
You can't change facial appearance, but can emerge with smiling face;
是的，心態有時比什麼都重要。
Yes, the mindset sometimes is important compares with others.

Their love & wishes ...

I just want to say: "Thank you for loving me"